We all have filters, ways of perceiving the world that are unique and unconscious. The human brain has evolved to be as energy-efficient as possible and one of the ways to cut energy expenses is to create shortcuts for commonly occurring patterns. The classic example of this is driving. When you … [Read More...]
Welcome to my sex-positive, judgment-free space. My goal is to be your guide in helping you find your most confident, erotic, sensual, and loving self. I will introduce you to a new way of approaching life that will improve your day-to-day relationships, not only with your sexual partner(s), but also with your inner self.
Regardless of where you are in your life's journey, whatever the challenges you're facing or experiences you want to have, you don't have to do it alone. I am ready to walk that path with expression of erotic embodiment!
Using my education and experience, we’ll explore a multitude of topics and modalities—specifically tailored for you—and designed to improve your life through a greater sense of acceptance, improved communication, and trust.
Together, we’ll discover new ways to experience amazing sex and intimacy while creating a life that maximizes your happiness through building joyous relationships.
I believe the healthiest and most nourishing relationships must honor and embrace our erotic natures. We are all individuals, with unique bodies, emotions, and psychological temperaments.
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The foreskin is a complex organ containing an estimated 240 feet of nerves and 20,000 nerve endings. In adults, the foreskin glides up and down over the glans during arousal, providing thrilling sensations from thousands of nerve endings. Foreskin protects the moist glans of the penis, like eyelids … [View...]
I’m a Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach, CSB, and Pleasure Advocate. Educator and Practitioner, working with individuals, couples, and groups. I focus on facilitating a deeper exploration of self-acceptance, true mindfulness, breath work, touch, and erotic expression.
CSB (Certified Sexological Bodyworker™) from The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and Somatica Method® Practitioner from the Somatica Institute. With ongoing workshops and developmental trainings to bring you the most advanced techniques and tools.
I also host an audio podcast talking about love, relationships, and sex in a fun, naughty “edu-tainment” way where I encourage sexual pleasure and experimentation, emphasizing experiential learning through consciousness, self-connection, and ecstatic, energizing movement to deepen your erotic capacity. I am a sex-positive advocate recognizing that sexual well-being is an important part of an overall healthy lifestyle.
On a personal note, I understand how difficult the process of truly finding yourself can be, having experienced the all-too-common feelings of shame, fear, and insecurity in relationships ranging from platonic to intimate and sexual. Through my own life journey, coupled with formal education and personal research, I’m uniquely qualified to guide others through sexual difficulties, past sensual repression, and relationship challenges, especially as they relate to enjoying the pleasure and satisfaction of fully engaging with yourself—and others.
Sensual and sexual discovery is an ongoing journey for all of us, I look forward to walking beside you as we continue on this exciting and rewarding path.*so·mat·ic /səˈmadik/ adjective 1. of or relating to the body, especially as distinct from the mind.
"Recently, the “World Without Love” series was featured on a podcast done by Pure Orgasmic Love, (you can check out their site at www.pureorgasmiclove.com and Podcast #30, where I’m interviewed by Dragonfly, a somatic sex educator and hostess extraordinaire .) Pure Orgasmic Love is dedicated to the exploration of love, relationships, and sex. Dragonfly is an incredible woman with an open mind and joyful spirit—and eyes that melt my heart from twenty feet away."
Jaye Frances, author of “World Without Love”.
From my initial conversation with Dragonfly about the practice of somatic sex coaching, I had an immediate comfort level with the concept. Her positive approach to all aspects of sexuality provided an atmosphere of acceptance that allowed me to relax and open myself to her guidance. Dragonfly’s professional attitude in discussing the relationship between practitioner and client included explanations of breathing and massage techniques, physical contact guidelines, and encouragement to express emotion during the session. Dragonfly’s attention to the goals and intentions we discussed brought a sense of complete understanding of my needs. She prepared a calm setting, adjusting the lighting and music, and during the session, Dragonfly monitored/ matched my breathing, while remaining focused and responsive to my body as she explored my concerns. Her technique was soothing – smooth flow of touch, hands in constant contact with my body, vocal encouragement, confident massage as she identified specific energy/chi points related to the areas needing work. As the session progressed, she guided my breathing, bringing herself into sync to connect with my personal experience. At the completion of the session, she wrapped the sheet around me in a warm cocoon, encouraging me to absorb the feelings and results of our work together. Even now, a day later, I feel an underlying awakening within my body. She also worked with my husband after me. After just these initial sessions, I’ve sensed the connection with my husband strengthening on a deeper level. We are looking forward to continuing our journey with Dragonfly.
We really enjoyed your workshop and the energy that you brought to us. Loved the cloths and stones and fire and music... loved your eye contact and that somewhat slightly mischievous grin you have from time to time :) Loved a new take on breathing and the exploration of the 4 chakras. We have just begun to explore and it really gave us a way to focus and come back to them as we explore our playtime together. Thank you!! ~Kat
With a hundred plus people in the room, we felt like we were the only ones you were speaking to. It made us feel very comfortable and cared for, even in a room full of people. ~Amy & Mark
We are celebrating 29 years of marriage and with your help during the In’s and Out’s of Female Arousal, I was able to have the strongest orgasm I have ever had!
You are truly amazing! Your love, light energy and playful sexiness makes me want this experiance over and over. Thank you for being you and offering everything you do.
Thank you, thank you, thank you, I can't say that enough for the experiance you have given us. ~Jill & Brian
This whole playshop was out of my comfort zone and something I wouldn't have normally done. Thank you for guiding me into an area that really helped me move beyond my box. I look forward to many more playshops! ~Jack
We have been in the swinging lifestyle for a long time and I have never been able to have an orgasm in a room full of people. I did it this time and it was so amazing. Thank you so much for enhancing our life! ~Lindsay & John
You have the sexiest voice I have ever heard. You can guide me through a playshop any day! ~Al
At my age sometimes the erections aren't there... Thank you for helping me feel normal and showing us fantastic techniques to still have fun with a soft penis. ~Donald
I appreciate your approach to sexuality and how inviting it is. The way you carry yourself and how you represent sensuality is intoxicating. Please don't ever stop helping us find our sensual loving erotic way. Thank you! ~Sherry