It is that time of the year when we are looking at ourselves and our lives and thinking about what we want to do in the new year. Maybe we put on a few pounds over the holidays or we haven’t been saving money like we had wanted. Perhaps you have been thinking about your relationships. … [Read More...]
Welcome to my sex-positive, judgment-free space. My goal is to be your guide in helping you find your most confident, erotic, sensual, and loving self. I will introduce you to a new way of approaching life that will improve your day-to-day relationships, not only with your sexual partner(s), but also with your inner self.
Regardless of where you are in your life's journey, whatever the challenges you're facing or experiences you want to have, you don't have to do it alone. I am ready to walk that path with expression of erotic embodiment!
Using my education and experience, we’ll explore a multitude of topics and modalities—specifically tailored for you—and designed to improve your life through a greater sense of acceptance, improved communication, and trust.
Together, we’ll discover new ways to experience amazing sex and intimacy while creating a life that maximizes your happiness through building joyous relationships.
I believe the healthiest and most nourishing relationships must honor and embrace our erotic natures. We are all individuals, with unique bodies, emotions, and psychological temperaments.
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Does the idea of doing an intimate photography session make you tingle in all the right places? Or perhaps the idea has crossed your mind, but you have some reservations. This week I talk to Chris Connelly about what makes a portrait intimate and what makes for a good intimate photographer. … [Listen...]
The foreskin is a complex organ containing an estimated 240 feet of nerves and 20,000 nerve endings. In adults, the foreskin glides up and down over the glans during arousal, providing thrilling sensations from thousands of nerve endings. Foreskin protects the moist glans of the penis, like eyelids … [View...]
I’m a Somatic Intimacy Sex Coach, Educator, and Practitioner, working with individuals, couples, and groups. I focus on facilitating a deeper exploration of self-acceptance, true mindfulness, breath work, touch, and erotic expression.
I’m a CSB (Certified Sexological Bodyworker™) from The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and continue to study the most advanced techniques, including the Somatica Method® Therapy program, both through IASHS and the Somatica Institute.
I also host an audio podcast talking about love, relationships, and sex in a fun, naughty “edu-tainment” way where I encourage sexual pleasure and experimentation, emphasizing experiential learning through consciousness, self-connection, and ecstatic, energizing movement to deepen your erotic capacity. I am a sex-positive advocate recognizing that sexual well-being is an important part of an overall healthy lifestyle.
On a personal note, I understand how difficult the process of truly finding yourself can be, having experienced the all-too-common feelings of shame, fear, and insecurity in relationships ranging from platonic to intimate and sexual. Through my own life journey, coupled with formal education and personal research, I’m uniquely qualified to guide others through sexual difficulties, past sensual repression, and relationship challenges, especially as they relate to enjoying the pleasure and satisfaction of fully engaging with yourself—and others.
Sensual and sexual discovery is an ongoing journey for all of us, I look forward to walking beside you as we continue on this exciting and rewarding path.*so·mat·ic /səˈmadik/ adjective 1. of or relating to the body, especially as distinct from the mind.
"Recently, the “World Without Love” series was featured on a podcast done by Pure Orgasmic Love, (you can check out their site at www.pureorgasmiclove.com and Podcast #30, where I’m interviewed by Dragonfly, a somatic sex educator and hostess extraordinaire .) Pure Orgasmic Love is dedicated to the exploration of love, relationships, and sex. Dragonfly is an incredible woman with an open mind and joyful spirit—and eyes that melt my heart from twenty feet away."
Jaye Frances, author of “World Without Love”.
"From my initial conversation with Dragonfly about the practice of somatic sex coaching, I had an immediate comfort level with the concept. Her positive approach to all aspects of sexuality provided an atmosphere of acceptance that allowed me to relax and open myself to her guidance. Dragonfly’s professional attitude in discussing the relationship between practitioner and client included explanations of breathing and massage techniques, physical contact guidelines, and encouragement to express emotion during the session. Dragonfly’s attention to the goals and intentions we discussed brought a sense of complete understanding of my needs. She prepared a calm setting, adjusting the lighting and music, and during the session, Dragonfly monitored/ matched my breathing, while remaining focused and responsive to my body as she explored my concerns. Her technique was soothing – smooth flow of touch, hands in constant contact with my body, vocal encouragement, confident massage as she identified specific energy/chi points related to the areas needing work. As the session progressed, she guided my breathing, bringing herself into sync to connect with my personal experience. At the completion of the session, she wrapped the sheet around me in a warm cocoon, encouraging me to absorb the feelings and results of our work together. Even now, a day later, I feel an underlying awakening within my body. She also worked with my husband after me. After just these initial sessions, I’ve sensed the connection with my husband strengthening on a deeper level. We are looking forward to continuing our journey with Dragonfly."